Yes, it is the first week of 2018 and your social media feed has been bombarded with resolutions, articles about change and a plethora of photos of your peers wearing their latest set of yoga pants and head wrap as they embark on their goal of completing a marathon by running in 8 degree weather…screen

I am writing this on a random Wednesday in the middle of December. My wedding anniversary is five months away and my wife’s birthday is approximately three months away. We are two months away from Valentine’s Day. There is no special occasion prompting me to adorn my wife with praise or recent